Author: Samantha Joy

OUR DIY FAIRYTALE CHATEAU WEDDING IN SOUTH WEST FRANCE – Wedding Portraits and Photos

The final wedding instalment…

After the religious ceremony, we ate and danced in the stone-brick reception hall and had our first dance to Andrea Bocelli in the courtyard.

The kids jumped in the pool, as did a few of the adults, and we had the most magical day with memories that will last a lifetime.

Wedding Bride Photography Mirror Black and White

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Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Bride Wedding Getting Ready Photo Black and White

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Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Bride Groom Groomsmen Bridesmaid Portrait Photo

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Groom Photos

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Bride Groom Photos Outdoor Wedding

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Bride Groom Photo Inspiration Outdoor Wedding

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Bride Groom Chateau Wedding Confetti Photo

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Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

OUR DIY FAIRYTALE CHATEAU WEDDING IN SOUTH WEST FRANCE – The Ceremony

Following on from my previous post on our wedding…

I wore a custom-made strapless lace and silk tulle wedding gown while the groom and his groomsmen wore classic tuxedos. My bridesmaids wore blush pink, the flower girls were in white and the page boys dressed in typical French attire of braces and bow tie.

We held a religious blessing in the chateau courtyard with beautiful readings, hymns and prayers.

I walked down the aisle to Andrea Bocelli and we used Henry Mancini’s Moon River for the background music during the signing of the register. The ceremony was more than I ever hoped for. Very personal. Very us.

Page Boy Bridesmaids Chateau Wedding Attire Ideas

Our page boys in braces, shorts and bow ties. The flower girls in floral hair garlands and pretty white dresses. Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

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ASOS Blush Pink Satin Bridesmaid Dresses with Hair Garlands. Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Page Boys Here Comes The Bride Sign Chateau Wedding Shabby Chic

Page Boys with the Here Comes The Bride Sign. Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

chateau wedding france photos photography ideas inspiration

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Chateau Wedding in France Wedding Ceremony Ideas Floral Altar

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Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Signing of wedding certificate vintage lace table cloth

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Outdoor Chateau Wedding Ceremony Ideas Inspiration

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Our DIY FairyTale Chateau Wedding in South West France – Details

Saturday 6th September 2014, I put on my Jimmy Choo’s and married my first love. Our wedding was a Fairytale.

We married at Chateau Riveneuve du Bosc in southwestern France in front of 28 immediate family and friends. Our wedding was intimate, incredibly personal and focused on us. Most importantly it was informal and fun with plenty of laughter and tears of joy.

Set in a quintessentially French chateau, the theme was Rustic Romance with a few shabby chic elements. I wanted it to be elegant and romantic with simple but chic decor made up of flowers, candelabras, perfume bottle vases and lace. We combined hues of soft blush pink and grey with peonies, roses and gypsophila.

I’ll split my wedding into a few blog posts, otherwise they could become very long. So, for now, here are a few images of the details:

DIY Bridal Wedding Flowers Bouquet Peonies Gypsophila

DIY Bridal Bouquet – Peonies and Gypsophila. Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

DIY Bridesmaid Bouquet - White Gypsophila. Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

DIY Bridesmaid Bouquet – White Gypsophila.

Flower Girl Petal Baskets. Shabby Chic Wedding. Pink and Lace.

Flower Girl Petal Baskets. Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Here Comes The Bride Page Boy Sign

Here Comes The Bride Page Boy Sign. Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

My 'something old' and 'something blue' - cut from my Grandad's shirt.

My ‘something old’ and ‘something blue’ – cut from my Grandad’s shirt. Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Yankee Wedding Day Jar Candle

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Bridesmaid gifts

Bridesmaid gifts

Our DIY Floral Altar

Our DIY Floral Altar. Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

Our 'Romantic and Rustic' Table Decor.

Our ‘Romantic and Rustic’ Table Decor.

Jo Malone Perfume Bottles as Vases

Jo Malone Perfume Bottles as Vases

Films as Table Names Wedding

Shabby Chic Wedding Table Decor Flowers

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Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

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Breast Cancer Awareness Month – Even twenty-somethings need to be Breast Aware

This is very personal but if it encourages one other twenty-something (or any age) to check their breasts, it is completely worthwhile.

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I have had a lump in my left breast for many months, six to eight months I believe. While seeing a nurse for asthma in August I casually mentioned that I could feel ‘something’ in my breast, that I wasn’t sure if it was a lump and that I had a dull ache there. She was rude, told me that at my age I should be able to tell if it is a lump, wouldn’t even entertain the idea of checking and said that it is a doctors job.

With this, I ignored the lump. But the pain stayed.

Next time I went to the doctors, two weeks ago, I mentioned the lump. I had my first breast screening and my doctor kindly informed me that I am not ‘supposed to know what lumps mean’ but should be feeling the breasts to identify any changes. He felt the lump and referred me to the Breast Cancer Unit. What is amazing about this service is that you must be seen within two weeks.

So, my doctor had found a lump. It became real and I was scared, petrified even. I developed severe panic attacks and anxiety and in the last two weeks have lost a lot of weight. I knew it was probably nothing but the fact that it could be, well, this was enough to make me incredibly anxious. Nonetheless, supportive friends and family make it that little bit easier.

Today I had my hospital appointment, accompanied by my mum. I had a panic attack in the waiting room and felt like I was going to faint. I was taken to a room and seen by a very gentle and understanding doctor who checked and felt my breasts. Guess what? He actually found two lumps in the breast that I didn’t even think had any.

After more waiting I then had an ultrasound scan. Luckily, the lumps in that particular breast are benign and ‘probably cysts’ and while they are there, they are very small. The lump in my other breast, the radiographer believes is to do with my breast tissue. I now know how to accurately check these lumps and have been told to keep an eye on the size to make sure they don’t get larger. If they do, I’ll need to go back for another scan.

HUGE RELIEF. Massive relief. At the same time it has made me realise that I need to be more aware of my breasts. Although quite ignorant of me, I didn’t think it was that important at the age of 27.

Another good thing is that it has made my mum more breast aware. So, if you are a twenty-something and have never had a breast screening or checked your breasts, have a good feel. Then do it again, regularly, so you can identify any changes. Check to see there are no lumps, bumps or tender areas. If you have ANY concerns, visit your GP. It is so important to do this, even if you are in your twenties.

For further information, visit www.breastcancercare.org.uk/breast-cancer-information/breast-awareness

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Custom-made Wedding Dress in the style of Inbal Dror and a Mantilla Cathedral Veil

I fell head over heels in love with a very expensive Inbal Dror wedding dress, priced way above my budget. In typical fairytale fashion and as fate would have it, after searching Google for a dressmaker anywhere in England that could make a similar dress, I found one. And she happens to live in the street behind my house!

My fairy godmother dressmaker is Rae from Ashley Sims. When I walked into Rae’s house she had a few dresses for me to try on so I could see her work and decide if I wanted one made.

There, elegantly hanging on a mannequin, was a dress in the exact style of the Inbal Dror dress that I fell in love with. Fate.

I tried the dress on and knew instantly it was the style that I loved. It was a fitted fishtail design with beautiful detailing, amazing workmanship and soft lace – I felt like a princess with the long train.

However, I didn’t want an exact replica of the dress so I worked with Rae to bring all my ideas to life.

Wedding Dress Replica in the style of Inbal Dror Dresses similar to Inbal Dror Galia Lahav

Inbal Dror Wedding Dress

I loved the shape of this Inbal Dror dress but I didn’t like the transparent backless design and I felt the front looked a little too much like lingerie (not ideal when we were having a religious ceremony). I also wanted a fuller and thicker train and the dress to be made from French chantilly lace, silk and tulle.

I took ideas and inspiration from Yaki Ravid, Galia Lahav and Inbal Dror to create my perfect wedding dress and here it is:

Wedding Dress inspired by and in style of Inbal Dror Chantilly Lace Cathedral Train

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Wedding Stress Tulle Chantilly Lace Layers

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The dress has a very long cathedral train in layers of tulle and lace. The shape is similar to the Inbal Dror dress only the train is fuller with an additional lace layer. While the lace design on the front is the same, it has a more structured bodice.

Wedding dress in the style of Inbal Dror Chantilly Mantilla Cathedral Veil Bridal

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Wedding Dress Chateau South of France in the style of Inbal Dror Lace Parasol Prop Wedding Photos Tuxedo Groom

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Rae listened patiently, answered all of my questions and made my dreams a reality. If you are looking for an affordable but exceptionally well-made dress in the style of Inbal Dror, Berta Bridal or Galia Lahav, do contact Rae. She is based in Royston and her details can be found at www.ashleysims.co.uk. Rae also made my stunning backless reception wedding dress which was in the style of Berta Bridal (I’ll blog about this later).

Inbal Dror inspired wedding dress replica

Inbal Dror inspired wedding dress UK mantilla cathedral length wedding veil chantilly lace trim edging

Rae also made me a mantilla cathedral length wedding veil with the same chantilly lace trim as my wedding dress. My husband was speechless and absolutely loved the veil. To ensure the veil stayed in place all day, I had a corn row sewn in and the veil clip slotted into that.

Jimmy Choo Wedding Shoes Champagne Gold Glitter Lace

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I always had a dream to walk down the aisle in Jimmy Choo’s. I coveted these shoes for a very long time so it was absolutely wonderful to actually wear them on my wedding day. They are the Champagne Glitter Fabric Peep Toe Jimmy Choo sandals that come in a beautiful lace design; sparkling, pretty and actually quite practical. They are comfortable to wear with the ankle strap but I am not sure I will be able to wear them again as the fabric took a few knocks throughout the day!

For accessories I wore my staple pearl earrings with a matching pearl bracelet.

My ‘something old and blue’ was a blue heart from my Grandad’s shirt sewn in on the inside of my wedding dress. This is a lovely way to remember someone you love who has passed away. It made my dress even more special.

My DIY Bridal Makeup Look – Simple, soft and romantic

Our wedding was very much a DIY affair and my make up was no exception, I did it myself. I spent hours searching for bridal makeup inspiration on Pinterest and found three or four images that I loved but the below was my favourite.

Soft Fresh Simple Romantic Bridal Wedding Day Makeup Look Inspiration

Bridal makeup inspiration: Soft, romantic and pretty

I wanted my bridal look to be soft, romantic and pretty with a subtle, sun-kissed glow. Ultimately, I wanted to look like me rather than a face of makeup that I had never worn before. Our wedding wasn’t about being extravagant or OTT; it was an intimate celebration. As cliche as it sounds, it was about us, our love and life together.

Wedding Day DIY Bridal Makeup

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In the six months leading up to the wedding I started to buy all of the products I would need. I also booked a makeup lesson at a Chanel counter where the MUA demonstrated the correct way to blend eyeshadows seamlessly. MAC was also quite useful, and a MUA there suggested I fill in my lips with a lip liner before applying lipstick to make it last longer.

My DIY wedding day bridal makeup look soft simple romantic highlighter peonies gypsophila flowers bouquet lace chantilly mantilla cathedral veil

My wedding day makeup look. Image by Alexis Frespuech http://www.alexis-photos.fr

My wedding day makeup routine:

1. After cleansing I applied MAC’s Prep and Prime as a base to improve the application and appearance of my foundation.

2. I used MAC’s Studio Finish Concealer in NW25 to hide my blemishes and the creamy, opaque finish gave the perfect coverage. This is also a great concealer for acne scars!

3. The foundation I went for is the PERFECTION LUMIÈRE VELVET by Chanel in 30 Beige. I am in love with this foundation. Firstly, this is an incredibly lightweight consistency that applies as a liquid but blends with a smooth, natural matte texture. I used a MAC foundation brush for application and I was left with a flawless finish.

It is the perfect foundation for oily to combination skin and for destination weddings where it is hot and humid.

4. Next up I filled in my brows with my MAC’s Espresso, a basic dark brown that matches my eyebrows perfectly. I use this shade as part of my daily makeup routine and have done for years.

5. The eyes. I highlighted under my brow with Venus from the Urban Decay Naked Basics Palette to make them pop. I used Naked 2 from the same palette in the crease and ever so slightly in the outer corner. I then swept MAC’s Yogurt, a pretty subtle matte pink, across the lid. I also added a tiny amount of MACS’ Pink Freeze to the middle of the lid for a little shimmer. I blended. And blended. And blended a little more. In the inner corner I applied the Urban Decay Venus shadow.

As I didn’t want to put eyeliner on my lower lashes but I still wanted to emphasise them, I very gently smudged a little of MAC’S Espresso in the lower lash line.

6. I mistakingly used the Rimmel gel eyeliner across my lash line and wish I used my Chanel pencil instead. It looked absolutely fine but not perfect as I’m not particularly precise with gel liner.

7. Before applying my Eylure false eyelashes, I brushed a few strokes of Dior’s Diorshow waterproof mascara through the top lashes.

8. Next I applied Clinique’s Line Smoothing Concealer in 02 Light under my eyes. This is by far my favourite concealer and I much prefer this to YSL’s Touche Eclat as it gives my quite dark under eye circles full coverage.

9. I then brushed over NARS Pressed Powder in Beach to set my foundation. Another firm favourite in my makeup bag.

10. Bronzer. I love a good bronzer. For contouring I always use Bobbi Brown’s Bronzing Powder in Natural as it is the perfect shade for my colouring, offering a beautiful matte glow. A quality bronzer that I highly recommend. I also used this to contour my nose!

11. For my blusher I applied Mocha by MAC to the apple of my cheeks. It is a highly-pigmented matte, mauve/plum pink that looks lovely with a tan.

12. Highlighting is a process I LOVE. I dab a small amount of MAC’S Prep and Prim Highlighter in Light Boost under my eye, along the bridge of my nose and just above my eyebrows in the middle of my forehead. We have all seen how Kim Kardashian highlights and contours and this is pretty much the pattern I follow.

I highlight my cheekbones firstly with Benefit’s High Beam, followed by my Bobbi Brown Rose Shimmer Brick  to create a soft, rosy glow.

13. I used the Burberry Dusty Rose Lip Definer to outline my lips and fill them in and layered over MAC’S Please Me (a rosy pink) and a little bit of MAC’S Creme Cup (a light blue pink). This combination resulted in a rose pink lip which I did love but looking back I would have gone for a slightly more nude pink. My partner doesn’t like nude lips so I guess this was a good compromise.

14. Lastly, I spritzed Urban Decay’s All Nighter Makeup Setting Spray and I was ready to go.

My makeup lasted, despite a very emotional day with tears rolling down my cheeks the moment I walked down the aisle, during the ceremony, all through the speeches… oh and jumping in the pool after dinner!

For makeup brushes I used a mix from MAC, Bobbi Brown and Real Techniques.

DIY wedding makeup bridal soft romantic look NARS MAC

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The main lesson I have begrudgingly learnt is to practice my makeup three or four times before a big event. Unfortunately I only had the time to try out my eye makeup once and I am not positively happy with the final result but it is all irrelevant – I married my first love, my best friend, my everything. And he thought I looked beautiful so that is all that matters.

Luckily, my friend a trained MAC MUA painted my face for me for the reception in Cambridge so that makeup was AMAZING.

If you do go down the DIY route, I highly recommend you practice your bridal makeup look several times, time permitting. It is also useful to take photos of your wedding day makeup in different light settings to ensure the texture of products are right for your complexion. A few foundations leave a washed out look (not ideal when wearing a white dress) and if you are having a destination wedding somewhere hot, matte products are ideal.

For my nail polish I went for Essie’s Better Together. It is a beautiful subtle pink, a little sheer but definitely not nude. The name Better Together is so fitting for a bride.

My perfume choice had to be Chanel Chance. This is my all time favourite scent.

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Chateau Riveneuve du Bosc – Our Fairytale wedding venue in South West France

Chateau Riveneuve du Bosc is located just 35 minutes south of Toulouse in Southwestern France; 3km from the typically French town of Pamiers. The Castle of Riveneuve du Bosc is a 17th-century manor, surrounded by a 2.5 hectare park with old trees and a private swimming pool, accommodating 30 people in 14 bedrooms. Chateau Riveneuve du Bosc, Pamiers France Wedding Venue Hire We hired the chateau for five days early September to host our wedding for immediate family and friends. I didn’t want an extravagant wedding venue but somewhere we could relax in an informal setting, have fun and hold a ceremony.

Chateau Riveneuve du Bosc far exceeded our expectations; an elegant and charming castle where we created truly magical memories. We filmed our guests as they arrived to gasps of amazement and squeals of excitement.

From the sweeping driveway to the large front gates, quintessentially French wooden shutters and the picturesque courtyard, Chateau Riveneuve du Bosc is visually stunning and really quite an impressive wedding venue.

Standing at the front door you can see right through to the swimming pool in the back garden – an entrance way that reminds me of Game of Thrones. The chateau feels lived in and it is this that made it so comfortable for the kids to run around, explore the magnificent grounds and do as they wish. French Shabby Chic Dining Hall Room Interiors Inspiration Chateau Riveneuve du Bosc Pamiers France Wedding Venue Castle Hire Downstairs there is a small kitchen adjacent to a traditional dining hall filled with candelabras and complete dining sets. To the left of the entrance hall sits the formal sitting room, reminiscent of Downton Abbey. A piano in the corner, books piled high on the walls, ornate detailing, luxurious fabrics and grandeur furnishings made this room fit for a princess. We also used this room for wedding portraits!

The house has three floors with 14 spacious bedrooms, all tastefully decorated and named with the charm of the romantic era. Chateau Riveneuve du Bosc Pamiers Shabby Chic French Interiors Bedroom Inspiration The floral wallpaper, white mannequin dressed in a pretty lace and the adorable vintage style desk made this my favourite bedroom; the epitome of French shabby chic.Chateau Riveneuve du Bosc South France Wedding Venue Hire We stayed in the stylishly furnished master bedroom, located on the third floor with a view of the front courtyard. It was particularly spacious with a delightful seating area, a wonderful large fireplace, a canopy over the bed and more storage than I needed. Chateau Riveneuve du Bosc South France Pamiers Wedding Venue Hire Chateau Riveneuve du Bosc Pamiers France Wedding Venue Bath tub bathroom interiors french chic style   Chateau Riveneuve du Bosc Pamiers France Wedding Venue 150 people Attached to the house is this beautiful cool and airy stone-brick reception hall that we used for our wedding dinner and dancing. It can sit up to 150 people, ideal for a party or wedding celebration, and the doors open out to the front courtyard. Just above the hall is a mezzanine level with a chill out area and extra beds. This was the perfect place for the guys to relax and enjoy a few drinks the evening before our wedding. Chateau Riveneuve du Bosc Pergola - wedding ceremony option Chateau Riveneuve du Bosc Pamiers France Wedding Venue A canopy provides a welcome shaded area in the courtyard and this is where we held our ceremony. The chateau is full of hidden rooms where you will find tables, chairs, candle holders, vases, linen and everything that you could possibly need to host a party. Chateau Riveneuve du Bosc Pamiers France Castle Wedding Venue The chateau includes an outdoor swimming pool, BBQ, ping-pong, table football, board games, children’s games, ‘pétanque’ and a library. We made great use of the swimming pool with the children jumping in and out all day.

As we rented the chateau we had to organise and coordinate the whole wedding, from booking a Pastor to the Chef and Photographer and even setting up on the day. We didn’t mind this as I had full control on what vendors to book but for some it could definitely be far too much work, especially with setting up the ceremony and tidying up the following day!

We left Chateau Riveneuve du Bosc with happy hearts – it felt like our ‘wedding’ home with big family feasts at the table, splashing about in the pool and BBQ’s on the lawn. The perfect place to host our wedding.

A little history…

The property was formerly the owner of the Baron d’Ornolac and was extended and decorated by Jules de Lahondès painter, student of Joseph Latour, and historien and archaeologist. Jules de Lahondès painted the murals that decorate the main lounge on his return from a visit to Rome and Venice.

He ordered the sculpture of his coat of arms on the chimney-breast for the mairiage of his son Joseph with the Marquise d’Exea. He also painted his dog Linda in front of the chateau and the hollyhocks from his garden.

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